Pay It Forward

Jag började skriva på engleska, men det blev så svårt, så nu blir det ett inlägg på svenska.

En gång såg jag en film som hette Pay It Forward. Den handlade om en liten pojke som fick som uppgift i skolan att komma på någonting för att förändra världen och sedan sätta det i verket. Den här pojkens idé var att man istället för att göra en god gärning tillbaka till en person så ska man göra en god gärning åt tre nya personer. Alltså pay forward i stället för pay back.



Trevor i filmen Pay it forward

När jag var i Quebec fanns det två fantastiska personer som alltid tog sig tid att lyssna på min knaggliga franska och uppmuntrade mej att prata hela tiden. Nu när jag träffar människor som lär sig svenska försöker jag göra likadant för dem och ta mig tid att lyssna och uppmuntra dem att lära sig.

En gång när några människor, som vi inte kände så bra, körde hem min systers möbler från Åbo när hon flyttade därifrån, så ville vi betala dem. Men då sa de: “Nä, vi vill inte ha något för det, gör ni bara samma sak för någon annan någon gång”.

Min handledare var på praktik I USA för två år sedan. Hon hade en jättebra handledare som gjorde jättemycket för henne. I fredags mailade hon åt henne och berättade att hon nu har en praktikant och att hon försöker vara så hjälpsam och vänlig mot mej, som hon hade varit var mot min handledare.

Jepp, så det här fenomenet har jag tänkt på över helgen. Jag tycker det är ganska fint. Ofta gör man ju saker tillbaka för den som varit vänlig eller hjälpsam mot en själv, men jag tror inte att vi lika ofta som vi pay forward.

Ditt och datt

Yesterday I went to the border between Asia and Europa. There was a big monument and I could stand with one leg in Asia and one in Europa. So touristic, but it had to be done! :) On the way back to the city we ate delicious sashlikis (some kind of grilled meat) and we also visited IKEA. IKEA was quite small, but I guess it looked like an IKEA should do. I bought gingerbread and knäckebröd. Knäckebröd is the best thing to always have at home in case you have forgot to buy bread. And of course – it tastes good as well. I have seen some Finnish products in the stores here. Many VALIO products, for example Oltermanni cheese. I have also seen Fazerina in one store.

As if it wasn't easy to understand the people here before, it really doesn't make it easier that the people in the stores and the restaurants are wearing masks because of the flu now... All I can hear is some mumbling behind the mask. Yesterday I didn't even understand a waitress who said da svidanja (good bye). This week the quarantine will be over and the students will return to the university. I will have quite many presentations this week.

Have a nice week!

By the way

My supervisor's mother was competing in athletics in the 60's. She ran 100 m and 200 m. Her best time was 11,4. She beats me with like 5 meters... I find this quite cool. She's my new idol now.

Pelmenis

Some weekends ago I was invited to my Anna's (my supervisor) place and they showed me how to make pelmenis. Which is typical Russian food. You fill small ovals of dough with different kinds of fillings. For example meat, mushrooms, cabbage, fish... then you boil them for about 10 minutes and then eat them with smetana or something similar, we had some kind of cream/sauce of horseradish. Very tasty. To this we also had many different kind of salads, mostly based on cabbage. Other Russian dishes that I like are of course pirogies, but also the soup made of beetroot – borscht with some smetana is great! I have tried to do it in Sweden, but the ones I have had here is so much better!

Я хoчо стать полиглотом

I'm trying. To learn Russian. But it's hard. I don't really have possibilities to take a language course. There are only full time studies at an other university, but since I'm working daytime this is not an option for me. I could take private lessons, but I found it quite expensive. At work I'm not really forced to speak Russian, since my supervisor speaks English and I give all the presentations and courses in English. It's of course not necessary to learn Russian, but since I'm interested in languages, I'm giving it a try to learn a little bit more than only how to order food in the restaurants.

So I'm trying my best with my grammar book, movies, music and an audio course. I also meet with two girls, who are studying Swedish with Josefina. We meet a couple of times a week and I help them with Swedish and they me with Russian. Is there something more I can do? I'm proceeding very slowly. Either I'm getting old or it's a difficult language, because it's impossible for me to remember the words. How did we do it in high school when we had 100 of words to learn every week...

Who know if I ever will have any use of knowing Russian in the future, for something more than maybe traveling or chatting with Russian people I might meet. And you forget a language very fast if you don't use it. Is it the worth the effort? I mean in international relations today you manage very well with English. So why not start with learning English properly. But I guess as long as I find it interesting, I'll keep on trying...

I love the feeling when you slowly get aware of that you really understand a language. You have broken the code of the language and you can understand most of what is said by people. You understand what they say on TV and you're able to have a conversation. It's amazing! Have had the feeling with Finnish and French. But I don't think it will happen this time...

By the way it's a pity that Lars Winnerbäck doesn't sing in Russian, since he's the one I want to listen to now as often as possible.

My work

I work in the office for international relations. They are two persons in this office. My supervisor and an other person. My supervisor is teaching but she also does administration work at the office. The other person working with administrative tasks and takes care of all the work with invitations, visas and registration of international students (all from former republics of the Soviet republic).

The first week I didn't have so much to do, but now I think there is always something for me to do, but I can's say that I'm stressed.

I usually start working at 9.30-10 in the morning. I search for opportunities (scholarships and exchange programs) for the students to go studying abroad (so far nobody has been abroad). My task is also to find a way to get the students interested in going abroad as exchange students and also to find a system to inform them which the opportunities are. I'm also give a course in cross cultural communication once a week (this was one of my supervisor's courses that I took over when I came). So far I have had two classes. The students in this course are studying English their 3rd year and they all around 20 year old. An experience, since I'm not used to talk for 1 ½ h and definitively not in English. It's difficult to keep the flow of talking. I remember that I have always like teachers who have been telling their own stories and given examples from their own experience, but now when I do it myself, I only feel stupid and egocentric.

I also prepare different presentation about Finland and Sweden. This week I had three presentations for different groups of students. The subject depends of what the the groups studying. I always start with a general presentation of the countries and then I continue with their subject. This week it has been music, literature and theater. Next presentation will be about design. I'm not an expert in these subjects, but I guess with some research I can tell about the most important things. If the students don't know English my supervisor translates (which are all groups except the one who are studying English).

The students are usually very interested and ask a lot of questions. It's really difficult to answer to their questions. Is it expensive, is it cold, at what age do people get married, what do we eat, how much is the interest when buying a flat, are we open or closed people? I mean everything depends on what you compare with. I have got a lot of questions about theater this week, since the students are studying to become actors. I said that we don't go to the theater so often, so now they think we are the most uncultured people in Finland and Sweden. I don't know. Do we? Then I also said that we don't have so many theaters. Then later I read in a brochure that I have, that Stockholm is one of the world's most “theater-packed” cities. Is it? I'm a bad ambassador for the countries, I don't know anything, only telling lies. Here in Jekaterinburg there are about 30 different theaters, drama, operas, ballet, private owned... Another question I got was what my opinion is about that Finnish people in the north cross the border to Sweden in order to pick (steal) berries... (I think he had heard about this in the news or sth) :)

I often start the presentations with asking them what they know about Finland and Sweden This are the most common answers: ABBA, Swedish families (!), Volvo, Ikea, Nokia, Santa Claus and sauna. They also know Astrid Lindgren, Ingmar Bergman, Ville Haapasalo, Tove Jansson and they recognize almost all the artists that are known abroad when I mention them. The most popular characters of Astrid Lindgren seem to be Pippi and Karlsson på taket.

Today (Sunday) I had a presentation for a group of part time students (at another university, my supervisor give courses in three different universities). They are already working as actors but want to get a higher diploma. They come to Jekaterinburg for a month twice a year during four years. They were really nice and had a loooot of questions. After the lesson they invited me for lunch (three students prepare their lunch every day, different students every day of course). I liked it a lot. Really nice!

Oh, back to my day at work... around 14.00 we go for a very fast lunch in the university. You can choose between different salads, main dishes and deserts. You pay separately for everything you take (dishes, bread, drinks, pirogies etc). It's quite the same every day. Main dishes are soups, meat balls, fish or chicken with rice, pasta or potatoes. I usually eat a salad, a main dish, a piece of bread/pirogi and drink juice. For that I pay about 70 rubles which is about 1.70 €. We finish the lunch really fast, in about 15 minutes and then we go back to our office. I like the food, but remember that I eat and like almost everything! Fika breaks are not exciting :)

We usually finish around 17.00.

The flu

Now my university will be closed too because of the flu. At least next week. That means that there will be no students. We will still work. But I guess there won't be so much to do...

Thanx to Johanna, who sent me an article, I now know that Russia try to prevent the flu in a little bit other way than the west of Europe. They closing the school in order to prevent to flu. They also have an other system about the vaccination.

Read more here

http://www.dn.se/nyheter/varlden/ryssland-stanger-skolorna-for-att-stoppa-svininfluensan-1.992801

So in case I won't update the blog for more than, let's say three days, you know that I'm also ill (I have no internet at home).

Trevlig helg!